"Re-Connections" Relationship Coaching Package for Reconciling Separations and Restoring True Love

 

By restoring trust, respect, and love, there will be no need to be separated any longer

No one wants to be cut out of the picture, or to hurt their partner

People separate because they are trying to emotionally take care of themselves. They feel that either something is seriously missing in their relationship, or that their partner is not able to provide the love they need. If they could have those things in their relationship, they would never consider separating. What people really want is to love and be loved.

Sincerity, loneliness, apologies, and a strong desire to be together just are not enough reason to end a separation. For that, there must be real change

Securely reconnecting becomes possible only after trust, respect, and love are restored. Words are not enough to create those. If anything, words alone are likely to make you lose even more respect. Your emotions of being hurt, needy, worried, or angry can also make you do things that damage your relationship more--making it more unlikely that he or she will come back to you. And no matter how often you ask, your partner is not going to be able to tell you how to fix things. Probably he or she has told you many times before and has no desire to do that anymore.

If you are the one who separated, it can be even harder to know what to do

You can clearly identify the problems in your relationship, but you feel powerless to change them.  Your spouse or partner may be expressing his or her desire to change, but how can you know it's not just to get you back?  What kind of contact should you have?  How much is too much?  How can you be firm without being hurtful?  And, if this is not your first separation, you know how easy it is to be tricked by your feelings into making decisions you will later regret. Yet, what if he (or she) can change? How can you help? What should you do?

Relationship coaching rebuilds the connection, trust, and respect which are necessary for ending the separation

Either partner can initiate this process, working with a coach to create trust, respect, and healthy boundaries that need to be in place before couples can work together. The goal in coaching is to rebuild the relationship before even considering ending the separation. The relationship comes first--not the house, not the kids, and not the marriage license. The relationship must come first or everything else will just fall apart, all over again.

The separation is going to end--one way or another

After an extended separation, people get used to not being with each other. New relationships develop and it becomes too late to end the separation. It is always sad when someone contacts me about helping him (or her) to get his separated partner back after she is already in a relationship with someone else. But, as counselors say, "You can't unscramble an egg." When that has happened to you, your relationship will be gone. I can only help you before that happens to you.

When you register for this coaching package, this is what we will do:

1.  First, we will focus in on the reasons for the separation

In this very emotional time, you need to have a way of organizing your thoughts, seeing the most important issues clearly, and identifying what your next move should or should not be. A specially designed assessment will help you to do all three.

The assessment will address the area that is the most responsible for the separation:

• Acceptance and Understanding
• Financial Cooperation
• Intimate Physical Togetherness
• Spiritual Beliefs, Tolerance, and Growth
• Relating to Friends
• Emotional Closeness and Sharing
• Family Relationships, Children,  In-laws, and Loyalties
• Learning and Growth, Shared Goals, and Working Together
• Creating a Loving and Peaceful Home
• Having Fun and Enjoying Each Other

2.  Secondly, we will very specifically build on the communication that you have

Exact words are important when the trust level is already at zero. As we work together to rebuild trust and respect, you will be able to be more at ease in working on the relationship on your own. If your partner is the one who has left, you may only get one shot at reconnecting. Having a coach at this time will help you make the best of it.

3.  Daily e-mail support

Just discover something that makes you sad, worried, or very angry? Such moments are common in times of separation. There is no need to wait until your next session to get help with it. This is one of the major benefits of coaching over counseling for separated partners. It is especially important not to let your feelings urge you to do something that will make your relationship worse.

30 Day "Re-Connections" Relationship Coaching Package

• Four 30 minute voice or face to face video sessions with Coach Jack (upgradable to 45 minute or 60 minute sessions for an additional fee)
• An action summary of each coaching session; clear steps to take, no vague suggestions
• Comprehensive written assessment of the relationship area that is causing the most problems for you and your partner
• Comprehensive goal finder assessment that will help to keep you from being needy as you work on re-uniting with your partner
• 30 Days of personal, email support; Coach Jack is ready to help you every day until you have success

The total value of this coaching package is more than $1000.00 if you purchased these services separately

You pay only $380.00 (USD)

 

Click Here to Register for the "Re-Connections" Coaching Package

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