"Win-Win" Coaching: Restoring Love With Difficult Partners

 

You can start to get the trust, respect, and love you need from your partner in as little as 30 days. Don't let your relationship end needlessly!

Relationship interventions are actions you take to change the way you are treated by your partner. Coach Jack's interventions are non-confrontational, non-rejeciing, and positive.

Difficult behavior is not something that you can just accept, adjust to, or cope with. When someone lies, cheats, is always negative, emotionally abusive, disrespectful, withdrawn, avoidant, addicted, or any combination of the above, patience is not a virtue. Not when that person is your partner.

As bad as your partner's behaviors are, no one wants to have a bad relationship--including your partner. He (or she) feels like his behavior is "right" because he is following an old program. Interventions do what reasoning and complaining cannot--demonstrate to your partner that there is a better way that will result in an improved relationship for both him and you. With the right intervention, he will experience this. He will learn from the inside out.

My clients are changing their partner's behaviors every day. They learn to shut down conflict and to open up communication. They learn to stop supporting damaging behaviors. They learn what choices to give to create cooperation. And they learn how to handle aggressive or avoidant behavior so that when they work on the relationship, they don't get derailed. As an interventionist coach, Dr. Jack Ito will help you know what to do when your partner's words and behavior are destroying your relationship.

"My partner won't go to counseling," is not a signal to end the relationship--it is a signal to use intervention coaching

Knowing what to do will make you feel better.   Many of my clients have told me about their frustration with months or even years of counseling because they didn't learn practical things to do to improve their relationship. When you know how to make things better, you feel better--no counseling required.

Avoiding regrets is something that can only be done in advance.

Every person I have taught these strategies to has created a closer relationship. Some got a little closer, some got much closer, and some got very close. They learned to stop living in a way that would just make them have regrets later, and to start doing things that make a real difference in their relationship.

 

This all-inclusive 30 day package will give you what you need to transform your relationship from a distant one to a close one

1. A action finding assessment. 

With this tool, we will see exactly where to start your intervention to make the most difference in the shortest time. Take a look at the obstacles blocking you from making improvements with your partner and how to take those obstacles out of the way.

Assess any of these 10 key areas:

• Acceptance and Understanding
• Financial Cooperation
• Intimate Physical Togetherness
• Spiritual Beliefs, Tolerance, and Growth
• Relating to Friends
• Emotional Closeness and Sharing
• Family Relationships, Children,  In-laws, and Loyalties
• Learning and Growth, Shared Goals, and Working Together
• Creating a Loving and Peaceful Home
• Having Fun and Enjoying Each Other

2.  Skill building sessions with Coach Jack

"Tell me how you feel about that" is the catch phrase of counseling, but "Tell me what you want to do about that," is the catch phrase of coaching. Coach Jack will help you with the rights steps at the right time. You never feel overwhelmed or confused when you have a step by step approach to success. And when you are done, you will be able to prevent this problem from ever happening again.

3. Daily relationship coaching follow-up

You have an every day coach, not a once a week counselor. Someone who will see you through each step of the way and work with you each day to make sure you have success. This unlimited, quick response, e-mail service will mean that you never feel like you are working alone. One on one daily contact is both personal and professional. One of the most common feedback responses from clients is, "I always felt like you really cared. Thank you so much."

30 Day "Win-Win" Relationship Coaching Package

• Four 30 minute voice or face to face video sessions with Coach Jack (upgradable to 45 minute or 60 minute sessions for an additional fee)
• An action summary of each coaching session; clear steps to take, no vague suggestions
• Comprehensive written assessment of the relationship area that is causing the most problems for you and your partner
• Comprehensive goal finder assessment that will help to keep you from being needy as you maintain boundaries and create win-win solutions
• 30 Days of personal, e-mail support; Coach Jack is ready to help you every day until you have success

The total value of this coaching package is more than $1000.00 if you purchased these services separately

You pay only $380.00 (USD)

 

Click Here to Register for the "Win-Win" Relationship Coaching Package

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